How Does One Know When To

  1. Speak Up
  2. Or
  3. Shut Up
  4. A handy little chart would be wonderful, like the ones that head coaches use to know whether the kick an extra point or go for 2....
  5. Or can there be an app for that? Like, I turn it on when starting a conversation with my wife/coworker/mother/stranger and it just tells me which to do?