Experimenting with the new open list feature. What kinds of things, when they happen on a first date, are encouraging, turn-ons (not just sexually), or indicate potential chemistry?
  1. Salinger knowledge
    Suggested by @bjnovak
  2. Ability to quote Kyle Mooney videos, especially the early ones. 🏉🏀🏈
    Suggested by @mysticsister
  3. Proper use of the English language, or whatever language is being spoken
    Suggested by @ecrook
  4. Knows exactly what they want to order off the menu
    Suggested by @grahamkellis
  5. Being ballsy and able to back it up
    Suggested by @p
  6. Pulling out my chair. Opening doors. Proving chivalry is not dead.
    Suggested by @MissBicks
  7. A penchant for conspiratorial adventure - like sneaking onto a hotel roof, or telling the bartender that you are traveling puppeteers.
    Suggested by @Suzanne
  8. Beating me at Scrabble.
    Suggested by @allisonemiller
  9. Listening to me and being interested in things I have to say. Real panty dropper.
    Suggested by @Aliiice
  10. Slightly embarrassing yourself and being okay with it. Nothing too scarring though, this is a first date after all. This is just a sample of the more legendary embarrassment to come.
    Suggested by @katolson
  11. When people are brutally honest. You used to be 200 lbs heavier and lost it all w/o surgery? Cool. You're 7 yrs sober from cocaine, booze and klonopin? Congrats (and congrats on still being alive; that's one hell of a combo). Both your parents are in jail? Fuck, man. Those are all real things dates have told me and it wows me how open people can be
    Suggested by @DanaDigsYou
  12. Quoting Robyn within 3 minutes of us meeting
    This just happened and was awesome!
    Suggested by @ohheymary
  13. Any type of dancing and if you spin me... you are IN.
    Points if the dancing is very terrible but COMMITTED to fun.
    Suggested by @originalamericantrt
  14. Having a plan.
    Sounds so simple, right? But it happens so infrequently, that when a person has thought ahead and has an actual plan, and doesn't turn to you and say "I dunno, what do you want to do next?" It's really awesome. But then again, I'm a grownup. If you'd asked me this 10 years ago I'd have said emotional unavailability and some drugs.
    Suggested by @hillarykerr