Watching my daughter navigate her 20s as I reflect on my own life so far, I want to share some hard-earned wisdom
  1. "Complicated and unhappy does not equal intelligent and interesting."
  2. You have the right to choose, not only to be chosen.
    Realized that I didn't have to settle for the guy/opportunity that came my way and be grateful, but that I could go after what I wanted with no apologies.
  3. It's better not to have a completely clear idea of what you want, because then when you get it, you won't be disappointed because it's not exactly how you imagined it.