Dating with an Expiration date

after 12hr convos with beau we decided that our relationship has an expiration date
  1. We're both expats in Japan
  2. This is our last year or so that we'll be in Japan
  3. We have no idea what our next move is as individuals
  4. It would be stupid to assume next move as a couple is a good move
  5. We've been hurt before and full on committment hasnt worked out for all
  6. We love each other
  7. But we not inlove
  8. Im 30 he's 26
  9. Loving me is intense
  10. He doesnt have the endurance emotionally