1. Know her from high school. She was my date to the junior prom. I got her a corsage that was awkwardly too big. Now she runs her own company. She is cool.
  2. Know her from watching her have sex on the Internet. And for her fantastic memoir, Insatiable, about having sex on the Internet, among other things. It's a good companion book to Zak Smith's We Did Porn, if you're interested in a smart take on a fascinating subject. She seems cool.