HE'S NOT THE ONE UNLESS

  1. you're ready to be one in Christ
  2. you have been freed of your addictions
  3. you have been freed of your anxiety
  4. you have been freed of your self-image issues
  5. he's running after Christ harder than you
  6. he lays down his life like Christ did for hs
  7. he is free of lustful desires
  8. he honors God with his words or actions
  9. you're dating for things greater than feelings or entertainment or happiness
  10. he has a strong, unwavering relationship with Christ
  11. he's an encourager; he surrounds people with truth and perspective