1. Letting my mums friend Lola hug me goodbye everytime she leaves
    Lola hugs everyone, she's a hugger. I make this compromise because despite my dislike of physical contact, it's easier than refusing and turning it into a thing, or having to explain, or having my mum get mad at me.
  2. Not yelling at my nana anytime she makes weight related comments to me
    "You look like you've lost weight." I always respond, "no", or "I don't think so". It is easier than trying to explain to her that my weight is none of her or anyone else's business. I don't do the same with my mum tho, she gets my yelly self if she makes a comment cause she should know better by now.