1. You look the same
    After not seeing someone for many years (compliment)
  2. You smell nice
    compliment rarely given (to me at least)
  3. You have kids?
    Does it mean - you seem awfully young to have 2 kids (compliment!). Or, in your line of work how could you have kids when you work so much (not a compliment). Or, it could mean, wow you have 2 kids, that sounds like a lot of work (compliment?)