1. I cannot be a bystander in the world, I have to act in the name of justice all day and every day
  2. Just because I'm single doesn't mean I can't be sexually active
  3. I can choose to be single and that's okay and there's nothing wrong with me as a result
  4. I have some issues with control and fear of losing it
  5. If I think a guy is bad for me, I should trust my instincts
  6. I can choose to stop punishing myself for wanting a life path that isn't in constant pursuit of a romantic relationship
  7. Love means respect
  8. I have a lot more to learn about how I deserve to be treated and what I truly want
  9. It's okay to eat a bagel every day as long as you walk a few miles