1. Nothing changes unless you change it. If it hasn't changed by now, and it hasn't, it's up to you to do something about it yourself
  2. Statistically speaking, it probably won't work out, that's true. But you have to at least try bc otherwise the probability is actually 0.
    Aka, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take
  3. Making changes is hard and scary but other people do it every day