1. Honesty
  2. Transparency
  3. Emotional support
  4. Creative gifts are valuable
    I would argue more valuable than a monetary one. If you don't have money simple gestures are often the sweetest memories.
  5. Being alone together is important
  6. Being away from each other is equally as important
  7. Enjoying each others friends really helps
  8. Biting the bullet and spending time with each others families
  9. Cooking together
  10. Sex in different rooms or places
    Or more creative if you like .
  11. Being able to be unwashed, unkept, in pain etc and still feel accepted by them.