What I'm Probably Gaining From Going Through a Hard Time

if you want a little background here's a list about my current situation https://li.st/l/ff85f8ca-a62f-412f-80a1-8a3daae10ef1
  1. perspective
    makes me think about what i want out of life and where i want to go
  2. knowledge about myself
    i'm learning how i deal with shitty situations and also how to be independent
  3. sympathy but not empathy
    i think having too much empathy is my problem
  4. resilience
    just keep swimming just keep swimming
  5. self love
    I LOVE MYSELF AND I DON'T NEED ANYBODY ELSE
  6. learning to not let adversity make my heart hard
    "Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place."