To-Do

just a general to-do list for life
  1. tell someone when another person says something truly nice about them
  2. eliminate using "always" and "never"
    specifically during confrontation or talking to someone about their behavior (good or bad). most of my memories of being deeply wounded by others involves them accusing me of "always" or "never" doing/being something
  3. have actual conversation with cashiers/other customer service workers