1. When people call me my real name
  2. When people call me a nickname
  3. When I ask people to call me Jessica and they do it
  4. When people give me hugs
  5. When people curse to me
    Honestly it's that whole thing of people willing to stoop to my level just to have conversation. It means something to me.
  6. When people tell me I'm wrong
  7. When people pick up the check
  8. When people sit with me in silence
  9. When people listen to music with me in silence
  10. When people understand what I'm saying before I finish
  11. When people answer my questions about things that might make them uncomfortable