This is what I tell my BF when he asks..I'm still not sure he gets it.
  1. You can write/vent any time of the day or night.
    To my knowledge, there are no midnight grief support groups out there.
  2. You can drink wine.
    Or vodka, or _________.
  3. You can wear your PJ's.
    Or yoga pants, or ________.
  4. You can eat breakfast. Or lunch..
    No pressure to schedule around anything in particular.
  5. You don't have to worry about running into someone you know.
    I feel less inhibited here, not so face-to-face and all.
  6. No one will hit on you in your wounded state.
    Not that that's a bad thing for everyone, I suppose.
  7. You don't have to worry about looking ugly when you cry.
    In case you cared.
  8. You don't have to listen to anyone else cry.
    Some days I just need it to be about ME.
  9. You don't have to "share" if you don't feel like it.
    Don't feel like li.sting? Don't.
  10. There's no pressure to bare your soul.
    Unless you want to.
  11. Saves gas money.
    It all adds up, right?
  12. I can multi-task.
    Dishwasher emptied, laundry going, dinner prepped✔️
  13. I can watch Real Housewives while I'm li.stng.
    Sometimes those crazy bitches just bring me peace.
  14. I can snuggle my cat.
    And that always makes everything better.
  15. You people are all really, really great❤️
    I like it here.