Two specific good things I took away from each failed relationship

(it wasn't all for naught)
  1. battlestar galactica and raspberry lambic
  2. diamond studs
  3. The compact OED and a jar of homemade pickles
  4. an unofficial psych degree and a cool bag.
  5. a giant safety pin and the ability to put up a mohawk with gelatin and glue.
  6. destroyer and a posie ring
  7. a forsythia and precious intel
  8. love of chihuahuas and a tiny tower of drawers
  9. good music and cedars restaurant
  10. a rose and a bottle of glue
  11. silence and invisibility
  12. slow jams and sharpened intuition