1. When you want to talk to someone in a list without side chatter comments you can either message them with a list request, or far more effectively you can back channel.
  2. What i do is scroll to the bottom of their lists and comment on the oldest one with the fewest comments that way it isnt disruptive to anything current.
  3. I havent really seen anyone else talking about this practice though.
  4. Maybe everyone else is being super sneaky 🤔