Four times that I couldn't say NOPE! fast enough:

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  1. 1.
    That time my uncle's girlfriend wanted me to travel with her to California.
    She's amazing to put up with my uncles shit, but she would expect I owe her for the rest of my life for accepting the invitation. She means well however buying my love and kissing and hugging me every minute isn't the way to my heart.
  2. 2.
    The time my ex-boss (also a good friend to this day.) Wanted me to move to Oklahoma city to help take care of her household.
    Our entire relationship would of suffered and we wouldn't be the friends we are today. I visit every year for two weeks and help out as much as I can.
  3. 3.
    The time in college when my good friend (at the time) suggested me and her love interest should have a threesome.
    I was wise enough to know that wasn't going to work for anyone in the end. Later the love interest focused all his attention on me and it turned into a stalking situation.
  4. 4.
    That time when my ex boyfriend wanted me to be ok with more people moving into his house.
    At the time we already lived with 5 other roommates. 7 people in a three bedroom one bathroom didn't always work out.