1. Having now read the obituary...I am deeply shocked.
  2. Again, I really, really wish that this was some kind of cruel hoax.
  3. It is not.
  4. Her eyes were always terribly sad to me...like she was trying to find something that she lost a long time ago.
  5. R.I.P. my dear, sweet, sad friend. You were very kind, very encouraging, and a beautiful soul. We all love you.