1. sexuality and gender is/can be fluid
  2. don't assume a person is making up their sexuality/gender because they are having a hard time finding a term that describes them
  3. (actually just don't assume anything about their sexuality or gender) (like at all) (they know their sexuality and gender better than you)
  4. i would tell people i was bisexual before learning about what pansexuality is
  5. and that's okay
  6. my sexuality is no less valid than anyone else's
  7. and whatever term you use to define your sexuality/gender,
  8. or if you don't use any term to define it,
  9. you're just as valid as someone who has always known exactly what their sexuality/gender is