19 THINGS I LEARNED BY 19

  1. 1.
    Time will always heal wounds. Keep your mind busy and look back as little as you can
  2. 2.
    In the end, it was the friends- not the boyfriends- who stayed. I hope you picked them too.
  3. 3.
    Don't hold back loving someone for the fear of getting hurt
  4. 4.
    Every single person is suffering from something. Your problems are not more or less important than theirs. Be patient, listen to them, and when it's your turn open up.
  5. 5.
    Never ever make assumptions or judgements
  6. 6.
    You can't compare your blessings or shortcomings to others. There is literally no point. What you have to offer someone else won't have and vice versa
  7. 7.
    If someone makes you unhappy, doesn't allow you to grow, makes you feel inadequate or inferior in any way. L E A V E.
  8. 8.
    Remember the moments when you're laughing so hard you're crying, when you think in your head "this is euphoria". Remember them when you're holding yourself crying on the bathroom floor.
  9. 9.
    Sometimes it doesn't work out. You don't get the call back. The boy leaves you without saying why. Your best friend changes too much. There's a reason for everything.
  10. 10.
    Some day all your suffering will have a reason, too.
  11. 11.
    Put your phone down. Look up. And be present.
  12. 12.
    If you gave someone everything you have, you will never be in the wrong
  13. 13.
    Compliment someone every day. It will make you feel good.
  14. 14.
    Many people will feel the need to make negative comments on your appearance. That means that something is wrong with them, not you.
  15. 15.
    The only thing constant is change
    Unoriginal but so true
  16. 16.
    Home is not a place, it's where you're surrounded by people who love you.
    This took me way too fucking long to understand.
  17. 17.
    Your body is literally your body so do whatever empowers you with it. If it's modesty, power to you. If it's nudity, go for it.
  18. 18.
    You only regret the things you didn't say, the feelings you didn't share, the chances you didn't take.
    Also pretty basic but goes a long way
  19. 19.
    If it scares you, it'll make you grow.