Some the hard way
  1. You can't make someone love you no matter how hard you try.
  2. Not everyone is going to like you.
    Don't change for them.
  3. You don't soak a cast iron skillet to clean it.
    No soap and water. Salt and heat, only.
  4. Think about tattoos for at least a week before making the decision.
  5. Always start off trying as hard as you can before you regret not trying hard enough in the end.
  6. If people are stuck in their own ways without any desire to change, it's not your job or responsibility to change them.