life lessons learned this year

  1. You are the boss of you
    If someone doesn't like what you're doing, listen respectfully to their opinion, and then do whatever the hell you want
  2. Just freaking love everyone
    You don't get to tell other people how to live their lives. Whether or not you agree with someone's choices, your role in everyone else's life is to love them and let them know they are important.
  3. You deserve to be happy
    You should be happy doing whatever you're doing with your life. If you're not happy, something needs to change.
  4. Immediate action
    When you decide that you need to change something in your life, do it immediately. Putting it off makes you miserable.
  5. Never compare yourself to others
    No two people are the same, so why do we try so d*ng hard to be like other people? It's not worth it and will only make you miserable.
  6. Don't worry about getting married "too old" or "too young." Get married when you are ready.