Advice I need from my grandmother

"We are two wings of the same bird" Hilda Parichi Ortiz always said to me. Now that she's forgotten it, I say it to her.
  1. When you forget my name should I tell you, or pretend to be your nurse who loves you until her heart breaks?
  2. What do you think would make me the happiest?
  3. What would make you proud to be my abuela? Have I done it yet?
  4. What do I do when you scream at me at the top of your lungs bc you forgot you're at home, and I can't quit crying? Do I turn my head so you can't see my eyes?
  5. What do you want me to do when I can't take care of you like you need? You never told me what to do. Can you give me a sign?
  6. Are we going to be okay... The two of us?