Making Friends ????

As a grown adult this has somehow become very difficult
  1. Friends from high school/ college have all moved away
    I live in New York City.
  2. Gotten married
  3. Had kids
    No kids.
  4. Friends from work tend to disappear once you no longer work together or change jobs.
    I have changed jobs/industries a few times over the last four years.
  5. I am looking for a few friends male or female to hang out with.
    Talk, eat, drink do stuff etc...
  6. Anybody have some helpful suggestions??
    Real actual steps or things I could do would be great.
  7. Would love to hear from you!
  8. Thanks!