WHY I NEVER REPORTED MY RAPE
- •I know him really well. We've been friends and co-workers for a long time.
- •He's a father. And a good father to 4 children.
- •I was drunk and maybe drugged. I know this isn't a valid reason but it's one of mine.
- •He's a special needs teacher and a good one.
- •I don't actually think he's a bad guy. Weird, I know.
- •I don't feel victimized or messed up. At most I feel hurt. I was really confused about it for a long time.
- •Rape is way too common, I didn't want to be another victim, reporting anything would be a lot of work and even more drama, I'd alienate friends.