WHY I NEVER REPORTED MY RAPE

Inspired by @alanarogerrrrs and @DanaDigsYou To be honest the only reason I'm comfortable publishing this is because of the great List App community and no one on here knows me or him.
  1. I know him really well. We've been friends and co-workers for a long time.
  2. He's a father. And a good father to 4 children.
  3. I was drunk and maybe drugged. I know this isn't a valid reason but it's one of mine.
  4. He's a special needs teacher and a good one.
  5. I don't actually think he's a bad guy. Weird, I know.
  6. I don't feel victimized or messed up. At most I feel hurt. I was really confused about it for a long time.
  7. Rape is way too common, I didn't want to be another victim, reporting anything would be a lot of work and even more drama, I'd alienate friends.