Looking back of course.
  1. Marriage is not 50/50
    Sometimes it's 70/30. Or 90/10 and it can stay that way for a long time.
  2. Sometimes a nap is best.
    When things are overwhelming sometimes a nap will help put everything in perspective.
  3. Ignore toxic people
    You can't and won't change them. Refusing to believe they exist keeps their nastiness out of your personal space.
  4. Laugh. A lot. Often.
    Laughter really is the best medicine.