Love is...
  1. Staying with the person despite all of the bullshit.
  2. Never meeting/being introduced to parents and family because it's not a big deal.
  3. Enabling the person's terrible behavior and ignoring how their mental health impacts your own.
  4. Always letting the person back in despite time and events that have occurred during the break.
  5. Hurting a person and then blaming it on them because your intentions were pure and you "warned" them.
  6. Getting ghost for months at a time because you feel like the person you love is doing better and you don't want to burden them.
  7. Realizing that shit wasn't love.