1. Anticipating needs instead of challenging them
  2. Being accessible and vulnerable instead of cool and aloof
  3. Understanding and remembering food allergies
  4. Acknowledging when I'm coming on too strong
  5. Articulating specifics of why I enjoy spending time with another
  6. Giving recommendations that are thoughtful instead of confrontational
  7. Realizing that grown people often require more patience than a class of kindergarteners