Why am single at 45

As I was told over the years
  1. I'm a lesbian
  2. Not enough money
  3. You're Too nice
  4. You're house isn't big enough
  5. I Don't like animals
  6. You don't call enough
  7. You call too much
  8. You party too much
  9. You don't party enough
  10. You're too old
  11. Just not into you
  12. You don't have kids
  13. You were a rebound
  14. Decided to go back to my boyfriend
  15. Rather remain single and watch Netflix
  16. I don't see a future with you
  17. Ghosted