1. He offered to buy me a ticket to a golf tournament in Malibu so that I could meet a "nice golfer"
  2. When he was first starting out as an engineer he worked at an oil refinery. He suggested that I try to find a "young engineer social club" near the refinery in Torrance
    Because according to him engineers are "good people"
  3. Join a Catholic Church social club
    Absolutely not