1. Men traveling alone: wow you're so adventurous and free spirited
  2. Women traveling alone: that's irresponsible & dangerous. She must have some issues that she's running away from.
  3. Men cooking: wow thats so impressive and worldly that you found the time to develop this skill
  4. Women not cooking: oh thats cute and charming. You're going for a zoey deschennel thing? Like the girl who's life is barely held together? You know, cause its so funny that a grown woman doesnt cook.