1. First off, why do you feel like I should explain my sexual preference to you?
    Who I like and who I'm attracted to is my own prerogative.
  2. Secondly, why is it any of your business if I am or if I'm not?
    It doesn't change who I am from the person you knew me as before I give answer.
  3. Thirdly, you're not the first person who has asked.
    I've dealt with people asking since high school. But just because I'm constantly being asked doesn't mean I have an obligation to tell you my sexual preference.
  4. I was asked if I was a lesbian today. I'm not mad. I'm not offended. My sexual preference is my concern and if I want to tell you, let me do that on my own.