Approached? Or Approacher?

When you see someone attractive, do you approach them or wait for them to approach you? Especially if it's someone you want to get to know romantically
  1. I always approached
    I liked taking matters into my own hands!
    Suggested by   @karlalucia
  2. I wait for people to approach me. This is why I am going into year... seven... of being single af
    Suggested by   @Boogie
  3. Approach them
    Suggested by   @wordytime
  4. Same as @Boogie I've never done the approach, I keep waiting for men to notice me and they rarely ever do. I do realize I need to be more active in the dating world but saying and doing is two completely different things.
    Suggested by   @theshome
  5. It always depended on the person for me. Most boyfriends I'd let approach me. However, when I met my husband Ian we were both equally forward when we met, texted, went on our first few dates, etc. I guess we just trusted our chemistry!
    Suggested by   @ripnclebass
  6. I wait then if they approach me I run
    I am very single
    Suggested by   @grayson19
  7. I am definitely not an approacher, never have been. Something perhaps, to do with that religious upbringing..? You know, girls are not to be forward🙄
    Suggested by   @cvlop61
  8. Actively backing up as I type this.
    Suggested by   @jennifergster
  9. Both.
    Smiling apparently is an invitation to some guys, so there's that. And I talk to everyone-who's approaching whom? Hmmm 😉
    Suggested by   @angela3950
  10. Thank you for adding to this list! I'm usually the one to approach and I wasn't sure if I should let guys approach me. I'm seeing that approaching someone is the way to go
  11. If they obviously look receptive, approacher. Never let what might be a good opportunity pass you by.
    Suggested by   @MMeanswell
  12. I am never approached. I never approach anyone. I am hideous, this is reason for both situations.
    Suggested by   @jstncwlcx