I have been here awhile, like months-like beta user, that is wisdom...
  1. Relist stuff, like wow you think you are some list sommelier...nobody cares about your relisting. If it's cool relist! Throw the list dogs a bone. Nobody will look back on your life and be like what an effing chump look how much they relisted.
  2. Also smile at people in the street. I moved from San Francisco nobody smiled there. I live in the South now, everybody smiles. Being nice costs zero-relist, effing smile. Do it!!! I am telling you, I know stuff.
  3. Intelligence and talent are not a choice you make!!! Being nice is a choice!!! Choose it!!! Whenever you can.