1. Constantly coming out; always deciding whether or not my relationship with a person is secure enough to disclose my sexual orientation to them.
  2. Anxiety about being outed to people you're not ready to tell yet
  3. People asking me how I have sex
  4. Having to remind people that just because I'm dating a guy doesn't mean I'm straight
  5. Being around other lgbt + people and wondering if you're queer enough
    Always a concern
  6. Being around straight people and wondering if you're too queer
    Never a concern actually
  7. Looking at someone you're crushing on and wondering if you're playing for the same team
  8. Getting questioned about your sexual résumé.
    Ok but just how queer ARE you, by the numbers?
    Suggested by @ohheymary