1. Not joined that dating website.
  2. Went back for my culinary degree like I told my mother I would.
  3. Went out and explored the world instead of laying in bed with my nose in a book.
  4. Wrote that novel.
  5. Gave him my phone number.
  6. Talked to someone about my crippling depression and anxiety that wasn't my mother.
  7. Got my life back on track.