1. Comment on all your opponents list but take 3-4 comments to make the same point. So it feels extra aggressive. The comments don't need to feel aggressive just the volume
  2. Sometimes take hours to respond but clearly be active on the app so you make the point that you're control of the timeline of this list war!
  3. You request list a list that implies you are ready for war but also willing to not go to war. The list sets the tone here!