How I Know I've Grown Up

I deserve a medal, clearly.
  1. I look forward to coming home, more and more for family, less and less for food and good laundry machines.
  2. The fact that less home visits have to do with food might be a strong indicator of me upping my cooking game.
  3. I don't try to stay in touch with my exes/live in a world where I believe exes can be true friends.
  4. I know better how to differentiate between what is my fault/responsibility and what's not on me, no matter how much someone may want me to believe it is.
  5. I give less and less fucks about shit that's out of my hands.
  6. I practice more self control over my emotions. I know better what battles to pick.
  7. I am completely independent. I don't even rely on the person I live with to get things done. I am completely self-sustaining, financially and otherwise.
  8. I watch more of what I eat and worry more for my health.
  9. I know when to give up/decide that it's just not worth it.
  10. I have no problem being the first to talk after a fight.
  11. I don't remember the last time I lied about something important/something that affects other people.
  12. I prefer solitude over socializing/I'm basically the human version of grumpy cat.