1. I have a deep capacity for understanding. An open mind, with enough trust.
  2. How do know I can trust someone? My sense of humor is easy.
  3. Timing. You don't have to be "his one" especially if you're not trying to be "the one". You can't do everything. You are where you are. Don't try and change that.
  4. Could Stuart be the one? There's no way you could know now. Just be yourself and remember there is no losing, only losing yourself.