PROS AND CONS OF A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP
Well I just moved to a different federal state than my boyfriend. We used to have a long distance relationship, but it was like a 2 hour Bus drive and now it is 4 and a half. I am studying fulltime and he is working fulltime even on weekends somedays and it will get worse eventually.
- •PRO: You are always looking forward to see each otherThe last few hours beforehand are the worst and the best at the Same time
- •PRO: When you see each other face to face nothing else matters, no fight, nothingI just wanna hug him
- •PRO: You try to make the little time you have as beautiful and special as you canWe take every opportunity to go to concerts and trust in each others taste
- •PRO: We always eat the best foods together because we are a really good team while cookingToday we did Lasagna
- •PRO: It actually does not matter what you do because you Do it with the Most special person in the world.Netflix and Chill is as great as a concert
- •PRO: You develop little Rituals to make the Most of it and remember every little DetailWe always leave each other a tshirt from one another to sleep in
- •PRO: You develop a great Kind of trust
- •PRO: You learn to make the most of Bus and train drives. Because you Do not really have a choiceI learn, read, watch movies,....
- •BIGGEST PRO: YOU ARE WITH THE PERSON YOU LOVE AND IT IS THE BEST FEELING
- •CON: It's Hard to be there for everyoneYou have Got family and friends and if the Weeks are full of work or studying and you see each other on the weekends there is not much time left
- •CON: You can not always Come to each other when something bothers youThis is especially Hard because that Person is usually the one you wanna Talk to most
- •CON: It's Hard to discuss some things via Text or SkypeVia Text you always missunderstand each other and via Skype you do not always have the time
- •CON: I have a Hard time meeting people so I only have him, my family and my friends from school spread all over Germany
- •CON: You can not just Drop by spontaneouslyI used to just drive there for a Day now I can not anymore
- •CON: Goodbye never sucks lessEspecially if there is no untill next time because your boyfriend gets his work schedule weekly
- •BIGGEST CON: YOU CAN NOT ALWAYS BE WITH HIM
- •Is anyone in a similar Situation and can maybe share experiences or give advice?