QUESTIONS I ASKED MYSELF WHEN I REALIZED I WAS GAY

it's been six years and I finally have most of the answers, but yo coming out was way more complicated than "hey do I want to kiss other girls?"
  1. how do I tell people?
  2. what do I tell people?
  3. how are people going to react when I tell them?
  4. what are my parents going to say?
  5. what about my friends?
  6. who will still love me?
  7. who will start to hate me?
  8. do I have to tell people?
  9. how do I tell a girl that I want to be with her?
  10. if I didn't even know I was gay, how am I going to know if she is?
  11. how do I label myself?
  12. do I have to label myself?
  13. what if I change my mind?
  14. what else don't I know about who I am?
  15. WHAT ELSE DON'T I KNOW ABOUT I AM?