Things Your Wedding Isn't About

I'm getting married in October, so I figured I'd put together a list of lessons learned from preparation on what a wedding ISN'T about.
  1. The invites
  2. The save-the-dates
  3. Your registry
  4. The venue
  5. The dinner
  6. The cocktails
  7. The flowers
  8. The DJ
  9. The photographer/videographer
  10. Where people sit
  11. What people say
  12. The decorations
  13. The pageantry of the ceremony
  14. Her dress
  15. His tux
  16. Who's in the bridal party
  17. The toast
  18. The honeymoon