Why do guys in LA keep thinking I'm in love with them?

  1. In New York I used to get broken up with because they said I didn't seem into it enough.
  2. That they felt under-appreciated.
    Yeah I get that, I was 23 and they were like 35, what do you expect?
  3. And now? In LA? The last two guys whose beds I have found myself in have freaked out because they thought I was in love with them.
  4. For the record, I really only wanted something casual with a friends component.
  5. I don't really care about labels or relationships and I'm usually dating multiple guys at a time.
  6. But what the actual fuck is happening?
  7. The first one I think thought I loved him after I offered to bring him coconut water when he was super hungover because he lives a block away.
    Like what. I'm a nice person, I had an extra, and know how much hangovers suck how dare you.
  8. Then the other guy, well he just freaked out because I asked him to go with me to my staff party because I have social anxiety and I've only been there a few months.
    Which I told him. And yet. He said no with absolutely no explanation and when I told him that was kind of a shitty thing to do, he thought I was in love with him?
  9. And so I just had to deal with a lot of bullshit, while being sick mind you, about him feeling uncomfortable about how much I like him and he doesn't feel the same.
  10. When I brought up that I don't have those feelings for him and maybe, just maybe he made this all up in his head? He was like, yeah I see that I did, but then he defended that it's just how he felt and couldn't apologize for how he feels.
    Wut.
  11. WHO ARE THESE PEOPLE??
  12. Why does this keep happening??
  13. Get me out of here.