Why do guys in LA keep thinking I'm in love with them?

  1. In New York I used to get broken up with because they said I didn't seem into it enough.
  2. That they felt under-appreciated.
    Yeah I get that, I was 23 and they were like 35, what do you expect?
  3. And now? In LA? The last two guys whose beds I have found myself in have freaked out because they thought I was in love with them.
  4. For the record, I really only wanted something casual with a friends component.
  5. I don't really care about labels or relationships and I'm usually dating multiple guys at a time.
  6. But what the actual fuck is happening?
  7. The first one I think thought I loved him after I offered to bring him coconut water when he was super hungover because he lives a block away.
    Like what. I'm a nice person, I had an extra, and know how much hangovers suck how dare you.
  8. Then the other guy, well he just freaked out because I asked him to go with me to my staff party because I have social anxiety and I've only been there a few months.
    Which I told him. And yet. He said no with absolutely no explanation and when I told him that was kind of a shitty thing to do, he thought I was in love with him?
  9. And so I just had to deal with a lot of bullshit, while being sick mind you, about him feeling uncomfortable about how much I like him and he doesn't feel the same.
  10. When I brought up that I don't have those feelings for him and maybe, just maybe he made this all up in his head? He was like, yeah I see that I did, but then he defended that it's just how he felt and couldn't apologize for how he feels.
  12. Why does this keep happening??
  13. Get me out of here.